1. I am hesitant when making decisions on what to do. 2. He is more capable/competent/qualified than you. 3. Shouldn't I be rewarded/recompensed for my efforts/what I did?
3.她处于很矛盾的境地，没有工作经验就找不到工作，没有工作就不会有工作经验。 She is in a catch-22 situation --she can't get a job unless she has work experience and she can't get experience unless she has a job.
"Catch-22", from Joseph Heller's bestseller, refers to an almost impossible situation in which "To get A you need a B, but in order to get B you need to have A first."
At my workplace, "outsiders" rarely get a chance of obtaining an "inside" job. The reason: You need to be in the Union to be given consideration; but in order to be in the Union you have to get hired first. A REAL CATCH-22 SITUATION!
我很矛盾. (不知怎么办好的意思) I'm in a real bind. I'm in a double bind. I feel caught in the middle. I'm caught between rock and a hard place. I am in a real dilemma. ...